Well, tonight could be the night.  I just got a call from the transplant team to say that they have a liver for Bella, and it looks good so far.  Whew.  I am not panicking, yet, as I know that it could easily end up not happening.  This is the most promising call we've had yet, though, so we will see.  I am going to take a shower and get changed, and try to stay calm until I hear back from them.  Oh, I am going to probably call my husband, too.  The trick is to not make him panic too much before I know more, though I haven't got a clue how I am going to do that.  Maybe I can get Addie to slip him a few Xanax in his chardonnay (of course he is manly enough to drink chardonnay), and I won't have to tell him until the morning.  Or not.
So if you don't hear from me before tomorrow a.m., that is a good sign.  I will let everyone know if it is a no go.  Keep your fingers crossed, say a prayer for Bella, and think really good thoughts.